By Michele Dargan

[Note: This article was originally published in the Palm Beach Daily News]

While being a caregiver to her elderly parents, actress Tina Sloan set out to write a book about the experience.

But as she was writing, Sloan happened to look down at her feet.

“I was in black flats, and I realized they were a mess,” Sloan said. “They weren’t brand-new sexy ones. They were scuffed, dreadful looking … the kind with thick bottoms. But they were comfortable. And I thought, ‘What happened to those beautiful shoes I used to wear?’ I was looking at my shoes and thinking, ‘Whoa! Something’s got to change.’ ”

Changing Shoes — the name of her book and her one-woman play — is a metaphor for life changes.

Changing Shoes: Getting Older — NOT OLD — with Style, Humor, and Grace, was published September 2010 by Gotham Books/Penguin Group.

Sloan will hold a book party (reading and signing) from 3 to 5 p.m. Thursday at Tory Burch’s Worth Avenue store.

“We are happy to host Tina Sloan’s book reading at our Palm Beach boutique,” said Tory Burch. “We love her outlook on living life to the fullest in her new book Changing Shoes.”

Sloan’s play will run March 17-18 at the Lyric Theater in Stuart and on March 20 at the Maltz Jupiter Theater. She lives in New York City and Hobe Sound.

Tina Sloan and Changing Shoes

The book is about transformation, reinvention and the many evolutions that happen throughout life in order to stay competitive.

Evolutions
Sloan, 68, knows a thing or two about staying “in the game” from her 26-year stint as nurse Lillian Raines on the long-running soap opera Guiding Light.

But when the lights went out for good on the soap’s 72-year-run in 2009, Sloan was not one to sit idly by.

She has a long list of television and feature films to her credit. She has acted in two popular web-based series: “Empire” and “Venice.”

She also had a role in the Oscar-nominated Black Swan, as well as two other 2010 movies Happy New Year and Oh My Love.

In her personal life, Sloan has been married to Steve McPherson for 35 years. They have one son, Renny, a Harvard University graduate who served as a captain in the Marine Corps. Sloan has run several marathons and has climbed to the summit of Mt. Kilimanjaro.

A quick read
Changing Shoes is a quick read, mainly because she writes in a conversational, no-holds-barred style.

Whether Sloan is describing what it’s like getting older in the soap biz to the depression she experienced as her parents’ caregiver to her only son being deployed to Iraq to running her first marathon in Paris, Sloan makes you care enough to keep reading all the way to the end.

The chapter describing her mother’s descent into dementia and her father’s battle with cancer is especially poignant.

Sloan opens up and tells it like it is — the good, the bad and the aging.

Eschewing surgery
Sloan candidly states that she made the decision years ago that plastic surgery was not for her. Teeth whitening? Yes. But that’s it.

Sitting in a makeup chair next to Jodie Foster on the set of the film The Brave One, Sloan describes the conversation.

The make-up artist remarked that she was “surprised and impressed” that Sloan never had any plastic surgery. When Sloan answered that she wasn’t going to have any, Foster said, “Tina, thank God there are women like you out in front for the rest of us.”

Keeping the spark

The book opens with Sloan and her soap opera daughter, Beth Chamberlin, walking down 44th Street in Manhattan wearing their designer ballgowns fresh off the Guiding Light set.

When they go into a nearby coffee shop, a startling revelation hit Sloan: No one was looking at her. All eyes were on Chamberlin. Sloan felt invisible, which is devastating to a woman, but especially to an actress.

It was in those ensuing days, months and years that Sloan decided there was no way to avoid aging, but there is a way to still retain that spark and zest of younger days.

“You just have to change your shoes,” she said.

Sloan appeared in the Woody Allen films Celebrity and The Curse of the Jade Scorpion. Other feature film credits include Changing Lanes with Ben Affleck, The Guru with Marisa Tomei and People I Know with Al Pacino.

Her daytime credits include recurring roles on Search for Tomorrow (“Patti Whiting”), Somerset (“Kate Cannell”) and Another World (“Dr. Olivia Delaney”).

‘Perfect storm’
Sloan said she began the book so that Baby Boomers would know what preparations they’ll need in place — such as wills, medical care and long-term care — for their older years. But the book grew into so much more.

“I realized my body was falling apart,” she said. “I was gaining weight. I was being diminished on the show. My son was going off to Iraq. I couldn’t sleep. I was going through menopause, and I just kept writing and writing. It all came about in a perfect storm.”

By Michele Dargan

Hey Kim Zimmer fans!

For a short time, you will have the chance to see Kim appearing in the Off-Broadway show “Love, Loss and What I Wore Thursday” for a reduced price.

Kim (Echo/OLTL, Reva/GL) will be appearing, as part of a rotating cast, from Feb. 16 – March 20 at the Westside Theatre, 407 West 43rd Street (between 9th and 10th Aves) in New York City.

Kim Zimmer

Entering its second smash year at the Westside Theatre, this intimate collection of stories by Nora Ephron and Delia Ephron, directed by Karen Carpenter and produced by Daryl Roth, is based on the best-selling book by Ilene Beckerman.

Like the book, the show uses clothing and accessories and the memories they trigger to tell funny and poignant stories that everyone can relate to.

Joining Kim Zimmer will be Katrina Bowden (“30 Rock”), Sabrina Le Beauf (“The Cosby Show”), Orfeh (Legally Blonde the Musical), and Barbara Rhoades (The Goodbye Girl).

Click here for information on purchasing $49 tickets (regularly $79) for selected performances.

Use code LLSKZ75 to purchase tickets for $45
for performances February 16 to March 20, 2011.

Visit http://www.lovelossonstage.com for more information about the show.

By Michele Dargan

Hey Gang!

Last night, Silas Kain of Delibernation BlogTalkRadio Show – and a Soapbox1 contributor – launched his Surge on Soaps week.

We all know that soaps are being cancelled right and left….As The World Turns will air its final show on CBS this Friday…

Silas refuses to acknowledge that this will actually be the FINAL show for ATWT. He insists a new home for the show will be found….and I gotta tell ya, with his drive, it can be done!

But it cannot be done by a few…..there is strength in numbers.

Sooooo Silas and his gang needs YOUR help….He will be broadcasting every day this week on his Delibernation BlogTalkRadio show.

The cancellation of soaps affects EVERYONE connected to the genre, whether it be fan, actor, crew….even nearby businesses.

The Day One podcast is located at the bottom of this entry. It includes information about a huge rally that will take place outside the CBS studios in New York City on Monday and other such rallies around the country in protest of the ATWT cancellation.

Listen to it – and listen to it carefully.

And please join Silas tonight at 10 p.m.

Silas has some pretty innovative ideas….apparently the most provacative will be released on his Wednesday podcast.

But, tonight, at 10 p.m. he will be discussing the OwnupOprah.com movement, which aims to get Oprah Winfrey involved in saving the soap genre.

This is BIGGER than just the cancellation of Guiding Light or ATWT….Rumors are rampant for the past year that One Life To Live is next up on the chopping block (and you know where there’s smoke, there’s fire)!

So….listen to last night’s podcast below – and join Silas for tonight’s podcast.

To quote Silas – “We’re all in this together!”

Listen to internet radio with Silas Kain on Blog Talk Radio